Clean Break-Off

Breaking off with your partner,after a long time relationship together wont be so easy at first.Why do people break-off? Attitude?Misunderstanding?Honesty?
In facts,there's so many reason that leads to this event.I cant say much about it,coz i never break with anyone before(LOL,no gf liao how to break).

Talked with someone about this yesterday.I hope these would help her and also others(reader skit ada hati nak cakap OTHERS,hahahah -_-)

So your relationship is over, but you just want to see him/her just
one more time.Why,i dont get it la.but if you want,u can AND if you really have to but if you can, be strong and make a clean break; you will be on the road to recovery sooner rather than later.

If there is one thing you can do for yourself that will help you move on with your life the fastest...it will be to avoid the on-again-off-again,which is unrelevant(eventhought you trying to reconcil with your partner)that so many people experience when ending a relationship.

If it's over...it's over! Dah la it's over -_________-''

Deep down in your heart you know it, but many people hope against
hope that if they go back just one more time, things will work out.Most of them yes,including friends,family etc.But the main problem and events,only you and him/her knows that.

So...they go back and try. 99% of the time it's the same sad outcome,plus an endless sadness(to girls mostly),minus a couple of precious months that would have been better spent in trying to heal themselves.

Don't try to be friends. Don't meet for dinner to see them one more time. Don't talk on the phone and rehash the past and don't let them continue to be a part of your life when they're not.It's the basis of virtue if you wanted to heal at the moment.

I know it's difficult to make the break, but be strong and keep your distance. It will make it easier on you in the long run. Instead, if you choose to keep in touch; you will only prolong the process. You will have to go through it anyway, so why put it off and make it harder on yourself?Why seek for forgiveness?Why you pity her/him much after what he/she did to you?

All of our choices come with consequences. When you choose to see him one more time or talk to him again and again, the consequence is: you will begin to heal later rather than sooner. You will waste more of your precious time and you will hold onto the hope that things might work out, which will only be a disappointment to you in the long run.

Making a clean break and acceptance go hand in hand. The "clean break" is evidence that you've "accepted" that it's over and you are ready to move on with your life with another person.

So...if you really want to be friends. Allow yourself the time to get over the pain of the break-up and then if you still want to; you can resume your friendship. Keep busy, find anything else to do, just don't go back there one more time.

Remember, take the right steps to heal your broken heart and...You will survive!Love will come easily,it's for you to choose and lead your life wisely.


p;s dont break because of jealousy.you're not kids anymore.